As a Purple Persona, you are can be described as an intellectual romantic. You have a strong sense of morality and altruistic passion for the greater good; as a result, you tend to see helping others as your purpose in life.  However, underneath that friendly, loyal and compassionate demeanour lies a very strong individual who will tirelessly fight for what he believes in. Your high ideals and morals are rooted deeply in the values that you hold dear. These ideals cover all aspects of your life including how you want to live and what your partner must be like.

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Your above average intellect and people-oriented nature make you a skilled communicator. People will admire you for your passion and your drive. You have a talent for expressing your ideas with so much energy and enthusiasm that it always has a contagious effect on other people, which, in turn, gives you a magnetic power to inspire and motivate people.

You are likely to be well informed and versed in a variety of subjects and you have no problem expressing your opinion, even if it goes against everyone else’s.  You don’t mind challenging those who talk about things they don’t really understand, which to some people can come across as abrasive. You possess a level of mental dexterity that few other people will possess. This means that you can find it frustratingly difficult to convey your ideas to some people. You run the risk of appearing to be condescending as your natural reaction in situations like this would be to either walk away or dumb down the concept.

Your extraordinary way of viewing things is even further complicated by your increasingly active thought life. You spend a lot of time ‘in your head’, often completely detached from reality.  This tendency often makes you overthink things and takes your idealism too far, often setting yourself up for disappointment. You are also a creative soul who can get so immersed in the project or idea that the rest of the world can cease to exist for a while. This trait, probably more than any other, can create quite a lot of friction in a relationship. As caring, affectionate and attentive you can be, you can easily go to extremes in the opposite direction and upset your partner with the lack of interest and effort simply because your mind is elsewhere. The key habit for you to develop in order to make your relationship as smooth as possible is to learn to pursue your exploits without neglecting other essential things.

You are a rather private person. Even to those whom you hold dear, you can be a closed book. What many people don’t realise is that it is not from a place of being distant and aloof, but mostly because you never want to cause any hassle by expressing your feelings or concerns. Your propensity for keeping your feelings and emotions to yourself can cause you to bottle up and brew on things. By the time they surface, they have so much mental and emotional baggage attached to them, that it is difficult to see things clearly. As a result, your outbursts are ill-timed and come across as cutting or sarcastic. You are equipped with a sharp mind and eloquence with which you could easily take someone off at the knees even if your intention was never to cause any pain or upset.

Of all the Personas you are the most easily misunderstood. You genuinely have access to more resources than most people do. One moment you can partake in high-level creative brainstorming and the next you can focus on minute details. When it comes to people you are generally caring and understanding, but you can also be dismissive and demanding when you go into your shut-down mode. Given that you don’t easily express your own feelings, and that some people may not be quick enough to follow your complicated way of processing and outputting thoughts, it is not uncommon for people to be lost on how to relate to you. Your way of thinking tends to be so different to the masses that you have to forgive the average Joe who in many cases simply won’t ‘get you’.

When it comes to your love life, you have very high standards and expectations just as with everything else in your life. You tend to have a crystal clear idea of not only the type of woman whom you hope will capture your heart but even down to the way the romance should unfold. You’d love your ideal woman to be a fellow romantic who will stimulate you mentally and will share your altruistic passions. You’d want her to match you in your values and outlook on life.  Never short on imagination, you dream of the perfect relationship, forming an image of the ideal woman and placing her high on your mental pedestal.

When on a date, you often start with a flurry of comparisons, exploring all the ways the current flame matches with the ideal you’ve imagined. This progression can be a challenge for a new partner, as not everyone is able to keep up with a Purples’ rich imagination and moral standards. With you being rather private, you may tend to expect to be told more details than what you are volunteering about yourself.  Give the woman a fighting chance to win your heart, and give her enough information about yourself to make her look forward to the journey. You have sufficient intuition to not be risking having the wool pulled over your eyes. So, why not kick back a little and give your date more to work with.

If a relationship takes hold, your new lady will discover you to be a passionately hopeless romantic. Purples do everything they can to be the ideal partner, staying true to themselves and encouraging their partners to do the same. You take your time in becoming physically intimate so that you can get to know your new partner, using your perceptive intuition to understand their wants and needs and adapt to them. You are generous in your affection, with a clear preference for putting the pleasure of your partner first. It is in knowing that your partner is satisfied that you would truly feel the most pleasure. This selfless desire to give and make your partner unconditionally happy makes you a truly valuable and unique partner.