To give you a thorough understanding of how other personalities will interact with you, it is important for you to know how your own personality affects the communication dynamic.

As a Yellow persona, you seek someone to match your pace and zest for life. Of course, you’d be interested in looks, build and so on, but faced with a few reasonable choices you’d go with the guy who can match your hunger for new experiences and living life to the full. You’d go with the impulsive fast mover any day and leave the polite plodders right back on the dating scene.

In the online dating context, you’d rather meet up quickly or hear the guy’s voice than engage in days of meaningless email chitchat. If a profile hits a few right notes and the guy looks fit, you’d be ready to take the jump. Your outlook is ‘life is too short’. You’d rather just meet the guy and get to see if things feel right or not instead of ‘wasting’ your time on countless emails.

You’d confidently experiment with a few follow-on dates if things are all sounding upbeat enough for your liking. At the same time, you would have no qualms just calling time on a guy who starts hitting the wrong notes, even if it takes saying this to him face to face on a date. However, when you do find the right guy, they are in for an unforgettable experience that will feel more like an action movie than a love story.

When you are out dating, try to remember that the whole process is not just about you. In fact, tone down your fountain of energy to get a deeper insight into what the guy in front of you is like. Give him a chance to impress you, rather than comfortably sit in your shadow. This will give both of you a much-needed opportunity to see whether there is a real connection there.

You are a Yellow Persona – pretty much the only real extrovert out there. Studies have shown that your personality type has a lot of dopamine, a feel-good hormone, in their systems. You are vibrant, fun, adventurous, and a true explorer who is always on the go. You spin many plates, know many people, and you are able to do a lot of things at the same time. You may not necessarily always do it all to the best of your ability, but you take on a lot and always uphold your commitments.

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As a primary [memb_contact fields=_Result1] secondary [memb_contact fields=_Result2] Persona, you are impulsive and dynamic. You like variety in your life and you love nothing more than to be out there meeting people. As the most people-oriented persona out of all, you are genuinely the life and soul of any party, and easily become the spokesperson for any group. You may often talk without giving much thought to what you are saying, and can occasionally come out with things that offend others. However, there is no malice in you, only accidental thoughtlessness – possibly as a result of your busy life.

Socially, you can be the life of a party, encouraging everyone to have a great time, and are often known for staying the latest at any event.  You may arrive the latest but you’d stay the course no matter how early you need to be up the next day.

You are an outgoing and fearless character, and these traits influence your profession too, making you likely to be highly successful and influential. However, it is easy for jealousy and conflict to arise in relationships that have a Yellow as one of the partners as there can be some tension created through your popularity and overly friendly and affectionate manner of communication.

Many men react to this quality in you by attempting to rein in your natural energy and enthusiasm, holding you back from expressing yourself, but this approach is more likely to have the opposite outcome to what is hoped. A Yellow Persona would instinctively rebel against others attempting to control her. Rather than pointing out these issues in a negative manner, it would be better if a concerned boyfriend were to try having a conversation with you in a neutral environment and explain his issues in a non-demanding way, telling you how your behaviour makes him feel. A communicative approach is always a better way to resolve problems with an outgoing and outspoken Yellow.

It is fairly easy for others to spot you as a Yellow Persona by looking at your living conditions. You tend to be quite untidy because your mind is busy with so many things, and you are exceedingly prone to accumulating clutter and spreading your things all over your living space.

Despite this fact being due to your wide-ranging and diverse interests, it can still cause conflict in a co-habiting situation, particularly with personas who crave order and structure. Any of those types can rest assured that they will end up doing the house duties just to survive around you.

As a Yellow Persona, you also are likely to have some very impulsive shopping habits. You are likely to buy what you want when you want it, sometimes even when you can’t afford it, and might occasionally find yourself in financial difficulties through your spending habits, which can cause problems in your relationships. However, even if your spending can be impulsive at times, you are also likely to have a good quality lifestyle. Others will perceive you as being at least moderately well off financially as you are likely to be driving a nice car and be a good dresser. These things are not what will make men fall for you, as the true appeal of a Yellow lies in your charismatic and magnetically charming personality.

Yellows are not likely to be susceptible to stress. You don’t really feel or experience this emotion like others do, as you possess a thick skin and can easily move on when things become untenable for you. However, it can arise in situations where others persist in limiting your choices and autonomy, or where you have to deal with tedious amounts of detail and be subjected to red tape.

Bureaucracy and form filling is not your strong suit as your brain is not designed for what you see as unnecessary details and, when the circumstances allow, most Yellow Personas will aim to walk away from a situation that is causing them stress. It is also true that you are unlikely to stick around and involve yourself in debates that you see little or no benefit in, and if the circumstances don’t allow you to leave, your confident nature allows you to challenge those who you see as the cause of the situation.

You are easily able to persuade and influence others in groups to follow your lead, but this is not something you would easily resort to. You are normally quite composed and these confrontations only take place when you are pushed too far. This behaviour is completely out of character and will only overtake you when you feel stressful situations are getting out of control. For example, it would not be uncommon for a Yellow Persona to walk away from a new relationship just because they feel they are being repeatedly nagged at.

The guy who finds himself fortunate enough to be dating you had better think twice before putting you under unnecessary pressure with incessant nagging or complaining. To make a relationship work with you he would have to be willing to relax and join you in ‘going with the flow’. Someone who finds this difficult or impossible is probably not suited to be dating someone of your generally relaxed and spontaneous personality. Men are likely to view your online dating profile as quirky, entertaining, and amusing. Your profile description will be unique and descriptive and you will probably have enjoyed writing it.

Yellow Personas like for things to happen quickly. You can be bold in your behaviour and if you see someone you like you have no problem with introducing yourself or even suggesting a date or a meeting. You are comfortable being playful and, for you, being flirtatious is just a fun part of the dating game. When you find someone you are truly happy with, you are thrilled to share your world of exploring, travels, and adventures with him. You’d make a glamorous mother who loves creating an exciting and fun-filled life for her family. Yellows should be on the lookout for men who want an exciting and adventurous woman, and some new and thrilling experiences as well as an ideal partner.

Both you and Red Personas are visually oriented thinkers, so more likely than not you will first be brought together by physical attraction to each other. For both of you, looks, image and everything that comes as part of the visual package are important. You both pay attention to your appearances and appreciate the same in other people.

However, once your potential candidate passes the looks test, you will immediately start digging deeper to see what’s hiding behind the attractive façade and you’ll be pleasantly surprised to find a great match to your wit and intelligence in a Red Persona. A Red guy will give you plenty of quick-paced conversations, debates and banter! In fact, this man’s debating skills are second-to-none so don’t be surprised if you find yourself running out of counter arguments pretty early in a conversation. This guy is the exact opposite of a ‘doormat’ and his ability to confidently stand his own ground will imminently appeal to you.

A Red guy is a text-book Alpha male which you are naturally drawn to. He is a charming and charismatic man with a pragmatic streak and impressive ambitions. You are longing for a strong man and this male is as strong and independent as they come but with a quiet quality and without show-off tendencies. You’ll find it hard to resist his powerful dominant stance and this is a man who is more than capable of taming you.

A Red guy will be attracted by your larger-than-life personality as he himself can be quite reserved and collected. You are the heart and soul of every party and bond with pretty much everyone who comes your way. Reds rarely reach such levels of popularity and because they tend to know what they are lacking, they often find themselves attracted to people who have an abundance of those qualities. The good thing about a Red partner is that not only will he admire your outgoing personality, but he also will not be threatened by your popularity. He is pretty secure and confident in himself to not get overly jealous.

While this partnership is compatible on most levels, certain challenges can still take place. For you, they can come in the shape of your Red man’s lack of romance and affection. This guy needs to be educated on how to display his emotions and affection. You can show him how to do that by taking the lead and bringing a romantic spark into your partnership while making sure you are vocal about what you want from your romantic relationship. On the other hand, a practical and organised Red can be unsettled by your carefree attitude to money and life in general. It would be very easy for you to let the Red take over anything to do with finances, but resist that urge as you can quickly become dependent on him and lose your financial independence.

A Red guy can keep you focussed in many areas of your life while still being helpful and supportive. His decision-making abilities are second to none and this will help to steer the relationship in the right direction in every practical area.  He has great potential to become your trusted friend and mentor. You are a very opinionated individual and it will take a strong and decisive guy to make you feel safe. This is what a Red guy can do like no other. This is the only man that you would confidently allow to take the lead and be in control of your relationship, knowing well that you are in the capable hands.

Both you and a Red have similar levels of ambition and you have the potential to become encouraging partners for each other, be it at home or in each other’s careers. Work is a big focus for both of you and you need a guy who will not only understand that but will also be there for you when you need his advice. You need to feel like you have your own life outside of the relationship and a Red guy will be understanding of that need without feeling neglected. By giving each other space to enjoy your careers and your hobbies while making time to savour the quality time together, you have an opportunity to create a well-balanced mutually-satisfying relationship.

This romantic liaison can make both of you feel like the rest of the world doesn’t exist. It can become a really fulfilling relationship where you complement each other’s strong sides and compensate together for the flaws in each other’s characters. Like any other relationship, a union of a Red and Yellow will not be without challenges. However, for the couple that grows to understand each other’s boundaries and limitations a relationship of this nature can make for an enduring partnership.

Just like with a Yellow persona, both you and an Orange guy will be drawn to each other’s appearances before anything else, but rest assured that this man has plenty going for him besides the looks. You will find yourself intrigued by his strong straight-forward nature, charismatic character, diplomatic way of communicating and his well-educated and well-mannered personality.

You will feel on the same page with this guy in many areas of life, from career to personal aspirations. An Orange man is an organised man with a purpose and impressive ambitions who works hard and plays hard. His dominant stance will show you very early on that he is not a walkover and you will find yourself respectfully taking a step back.

You crave a strong man as a partner and an Orange man can offer this to you like no one else. These guys don’t approach anything half-heartedly and you can’t help but admire their drive and persistence with which they work their way towards goals.

He’d be able to debate most things with just as much energy as you. Your conversations with one another may be rather challenging and heated at times. But it won’t stop either of you from starting a debate whenever you feel like it as most of the times you go right back to being smitten with each other once your verbal battle has been exhausted. This is the man that will keep you mentally stimulated and entertained in a way like no one else can.

Even though you often find yourself having heated arguments with your tempestuous Orange partner the making up will be just as passionate as the argument itself. Neither of you are likely to hold grudges or harbour things for too long. Over time you will find your own ways of getting these issues behind you.

However, once the initial fiery chemistry wears off, you would need to take care to not to succumb to frequent misunderstandings and leaving things unresolved between the two of you. As a Yellow Persona, you are not that good at completely resolving issues. And even though your Orange guy is well able to voice his disapproval at things, there are also certain things that he will expect you to understand about him.

As you both have fairly fiery temperaments, you may only deal with surface issues and never slow yourselves down enough to deal with issues comprehensively. So every time there is a new flare-up, previously unresolved issues may again take centre stage.

It is important that you don’t forget that while the Orange man can work hard and argue hard, he will also need to withdraw into a caring pair of arms and just be pampered. He is very tactile with his woman. He needs his partner to show her affection consistently and generously. He might appear to be made of steel but secretly this man needs an emotional pillar he can lean on. You can very successfully provide that for him. What will make your union really strong is the ability that both of you have to create a really intense bubble-like connection. Even as you work your way through the challenges of the relationship, you won’t lose the sense of closeness and a mutual desire to make it work.

You will quickly find your emotional connection growing deeper with this guy as he invests himself in a relationship with you with the same passion he goes in for his goals. You will enjoy this irreverent risk taker’s outlook on life. Your initial attraction and sense of fun is likely to be the thing that will keep your flame alive in a relationship for a long time. You will bring out the adventurous streak in him that he doesn’t get to explore much with other personas. Having a thrill-seeking element to his life is something this man appreciates a lot and he is not likely to walk away easily from someone who provides it in abundance. Besides bringing a spicy flavour to his life, he will appreciate your encouraging and caring nature. You, in return, will find that he is fiercely protective and loyal to you

You are a great conversationalist and you love having a discussion partner who can match you in your debating skills. An Orange man is opinionated and isn’t afraid to voice his mind.

This guy is probably your most compatible match that will fulfil most of your expectations from a relationship and complement your character with a variety of traits. He is dominant enough to tame your fiery character, but with his gentle streak, he has the capability to become your best friend and be the source of never-ending affection and romance. You will always feel like a team when you are in a partnership with an Orange man. Like Bonnie and Clyde, you’ll find yourself taking on the world together, planning your next big adventure and turning even the most mundane things into memorable experiences.

When two Yellows come together, their dynamic is nothing short of a carnival on steroids. This partnership is incredibly energetic and unstoppable and there will be no couple more popular in the social circles than you and your fellow Yellow. To people outside, your life will seem like a never-ending party as you will bring fun, excitement and adventure pretty much everywhere you two go.

You will find yourself well aligned with a Yellow guy, on most important levels like emotions, family values, career aspirations, etc. You will clearly understand each other’s needs and will have the capacity to provide what the other person needs in most areas. A Yellow guy will tend to be a bit more dominant than you are but not dominant enough for you to be getting into a power struggle so this aspect has a potential to create a well-balanced mutually-respectful dynamic.

You both have high expectations from your careers and your work is an important part of your life that you invest a lot of time and effort into. You will be very forgiving of each other’s often hectic lifestyles as this dynamic is a natural part of your lives.

Not only will you be understanding of your partner placing a high priority on work, but you will also be very supportive of each other’s career exploits, even to the point of burning the midnight oil on behalf of each other. You have the potential to become each other’s trusted advisors and closest confidants.

It is important for both of you to have a life outside of your partnership and you will be very accepting of this fact without feeling neglected. When you do spend quality time together, you will easily find yourself lost in time as you will immensely enjoy each other’s company. You both will be devoted to your partnership and will provide each other with plenty of much needed emotional closeness and affection. You have the capacity to build a relationship full of continued openness and trust where your partner is the first person you run to, be it to share the good news or to seek comfort on the not-so-good days. This element of your relationship is what will keep the fire of your affection alive for years to come.

However, this very element can turn into a weak spot if one of you distances yourself from the other. Because both of you invest yourselves fully into whatever you do, it is not uncommon for a Yellow persona to shift all their focus into one area, often neglecting others. If a fellow Yellow persona happens to be one of those neglected areas, they might go and seek affection elsewhere. So all that trust that you worked so hard to build can be easily broken when either of you are continuously disgruntled with one another.

It is worth mentioning that jealousy is not something that this union will naturally suffer from. An element of jealousy is very likely to be present in your relationships with other Personas but not so much with a fellow Yellow. You both will give each other much more leeway with the people of the opposite sex than other people would.

While your romantic relationship doesn’t easily break out of the idyllic fascination with each other, same can’t be said for the practical aspects of your life together. There is a high chance that a lot of things in your life would be easily described as chaotic. Many of those things like struggling to stick to a pre-agreed schedule or plan are not going to cause any major discomfort to either of you, but when it comes down to practical things of everyday living, one of you will have to step up. Otherwise, it’s likely that you two will be so busy having fun that you will not watch your bank balances. You will overcommit, overextend and overlook paying essential bills that will incur even bigger fines.

One thing you both should be careful of not doing in this union is expecting the other person to step up and take over those mundane tasks. If one of you ends up doing that job and not by choice, but rather by lack of it, it is only a matter of time before friction and resentment build up. One of the best dynamics of your partnership is being a team, so make sure you act as one when it comes to practical arrangements.

You have a chance to acquire a best friend, a passionate lover and an adventure companion in the person of a Yellow man, but to make sure that this partnership lasts longer than a few thrill-seeking pursuits, you both will need to learn how to attend to each other’s needs without dismissing the responsibilities that come with a relationship. You do that and we can guarantee you are in for the ride of your life!

Out of your most incompatible matches, Mint Persona can probably qualify as the least offender, but don’t let that trick you into thinking that a partnership with this guy is a good idea. You will find that you have more touch points with this guy in comparison to the Green man, but the areas where you don’t match will eventually cause severe cracks in the relationship.

In simple terms, a Mint guy is a milder version of a Green Persona. He is just as detail-oriented and systematic in his thinking. You will have many similar issues that you’d have with a Green if you date a Mint. A Mint guy is not as head-strong and unaccommodating as a Green might be but he has his quirks that will not go down well with you.

Both Greens and Mints love to micromanage, but if a Green micromanages details, a Mint can’t help but to relentlessly micromanage time. You and a Mint live in different mental time zones. You regard time as something that can be stretched and pushed if needed, while a Mint guy lives on a tight schedule. This particular gap alone can cause a lot of friction – you’ll always be late, he’ll always be early. Both of you will be annoyed with each other, just for a different reason. He’ll be frustrated with your systematic mismanagement of time, you’ll be annoyed with his never-ending whining about it.

You’ll be hitting the scales of opposites on many different things. Money will be a permanent subject of your fall-outs. A Mint will always voice his disapproval of your spending habits – you love to spend, he loves to save. The same pattern will extend to how both of you make plans. A Mint man will plan everything in advance, make arrangements beforehand and leave very little to last minute. Last minute is how you operate on many occasions. Your impulsive and spontaneous nature doesn’t want to be restrained by time frames and limits.

Mints tend to live off a list while you seem to carry all the to-do things in your head and think on your feet. Putting arrangements down for anything, be it routine day-to-day life or planning a holiday, will put both of you through a considerate amount of friction and disagreement as you’ll view differently how things need to be done. You are not detail-oriented and it wouldn’t be uncommon for you to forget things once in a while. You won’t think much about it while this tendency would properly rub the Mint the wrong way.

You often speak without thinking twice and some of these things can make a Mint man freeze in shock. These guys have a very sensitive sense of tact and can find a friendly approach to pretty much any Persona. They hate to find themselves in situations where something irreverent or border-line rude.

You are not fazed by situations like that and often find yourself being the one who makes the room go quiet. Being a constant witness and participant to scenarios like that will make a Mint guy feel increasingly uneasy.

While a Mint man is friendly and likeable, he doesn’t have any need for being in the limelight. They are loved by many but never find themselves being the heart and soul of the party or group. This is your prerogative! You shine bright wherever you go and while that might not be a problem for a Mint man in a social setting, he surely won’t take lightly to the fact that your energizing personality attracts a lot of male attention. He won’t admit he is jealous and these feelings will keep bubbling up inside him.  He will resort to sarcasm and snigger remarks which are more than likely to go unnoticed by you.

You and a Mint man view your lives differently on a bigger scale. You can’t live without adventure and adrenaline on a daily basis which is too much to handle for a gentle peace-loving Mint. You want to have a life of your own outside of the home, pursue your dreams and goals and not be dragged down by your partner. A Mint has a much more traditional and conservative view of what kind of family he wants. He is very unlikely to be supportive of your buzzing lifestyle and will feel that he is at the bottom of your priority list, even if you don’t see it that way at all. Your nature needs freedom, not a golden cage, and unfortunately, this man will want to snap your wings off.

This is not a union that would make either of you feel fulfilled. You’ll be restricted in your impulses, while he’ll feel overpowered and almost emasculated at times. You have come this far in your life without having to bend and blend on things and you will not see why you’d need to change purely because some nice guy wants you to. You and a Mint man are not quite as polar as you and Green would be, but the same negative forces come to play in this partnership, making it incredibly difficult to survive in the long run.

A man with a Blue persona is considerate, outgoing and warm-hearted and will take a shine towards your equally friendly and composed demeanour. Being two representatives of the same Persona, you share the same strengths and weaknesses which can be a blessing and a curse at the same time. In partnerships with other personas some of your traits can be effortlessly balanced out but there is little room for balancing in a union of two same personas.

In general, a Blue man can be considered your good match but it will probably be your weakest match out of your most compatible ones. While certain areas of this relationship will work wonderfully, there will be significant gaps that can have long-stretching consequences.

You will find yourself on the same page in many areas of life. You place family highly in your value system and you both have a similar view of what kind of relationship you’d like to have. There will be a strong emotional connection in this union as you both have a tremendous capacity for making each other feel loved and cared for.  You will both love your ability of getting lost with one another in your fairytale-like world of affection and romance. When it comes to showing care for loved ones and friends, you will be known as a couple who can lift others just by being around them.

When it comes to emotions, there is hardly any other man who can create such a loving and caring environment for you while also proudly allowing you space to shine in the areas where you are strong. However, there will be massive gaps in this union when it comes to practical things. You are similar in how you approach finances and time-handling, but in this context it is not a good thing. Neither of you are particularly well-organised or disciplined when it comes to budgeting and planning. Between being prone to occasional impulse buys and not structuring your budget efficiently, you will often find yourself staring at an overdrawn bank account and neither of you will have a capacity to sole-handily change this dynamic. If you don’t address this issue, you may find yourself in financial distress in the long-term.

To make a union of two Blues work, it would be wise to create a good understanding of who will perform what role and for how long. This will serve you well as it alleviates that sense of resentment when one of you ends up with having to do a task not by choice, but by lack of it. While assigning duties might sound simple, another aspect of your personalities might make it more difficult than you’d expect. Both of you despise any sort of confrontation so you might find it challenging to even bring up any of the practical issues in a conversation. You have to remember that not talking about a problem doesn’t make it disappear. You’ll have to develop a habit of addressing issues as they are rising without waiting till they turn into an elephant in a room.

As if those challenges weren’t enough, neither of you have strong tendencies to act decisively. You feel at your most comfortable when given an opportunity to sleep on things for a few days. This would not cause any problems in a relationship with a Mint, for instance, but when two people procrastinate making a decision and committing to it, things can quickly spiral out of control, especially if any of these issues have a time-sensitive nature.

Between struggling to confront each other on things that are bothering you, lacking decision-making aptitude as well as planning savvy, this partnership has a fair share of roadblocks to overcome. However, if you come from the place of strengths that this union provides, you can both work your way through the issues and come out on the other side stronger and more united than ever. We couldn’t dismiss this partnership as a bad match because when things are good between you two, it is a wonderful place for both of you to be. You and a Blue man have an unusually strong chance to create a bubble-like relationship where both of you feel blissfully happy and emotionally connected. It is the most challenging one of your compatible matches, but the one well worth fighting for as the benefits can outweigh the flaws threefold.