To give you a thorough understanding of how other personalities will interact with you, it is important for you to know how your own personality affects the communication dynamic.

As a Mint persona, you seek someone to match your need for order, structure, responsibility and consideration towards other people. You value these things the most in people, and the lack of these in someone is something you find very disconcerting.

Of course, you’d be interested in looks and build and so on, but faced with a few reasonable choices you’d go with the guy who creates a fun but peaceful and stable environment, one who is organized and takes responsibility for his actions, and one who isn’t in the habit of offending or judging people. The slightest hint of any prejudices will set your alarm bells going. You’d want to find out how this guy conducts his life, his relationships and his finances. The man’s behaviour, language and thoughtful gestures are all likely to give you a bearing on whether he is suitable for you or not. It would be best you trust your internal gut-feel throughout a dating experience.

You are likely to want a guy to romance you into accepting a date. While you like having your life organized and knowing where it’s heading, you do appreciate an odd romantic, impulsive adventure here and there. Bear in mind that it is not your nature to be impolite or overly direct, so if some charmer has managed himself through your elimination process and is now face to face with you on a date, it will be harder for you to get rid of him. You are not really comfortable with conflict and may succumb to going with the flow to see what happens. Sometimes this can lead to things you didn’t intend – it is not uncommon for Mints to find themselves s in a full-blown relationship with someone they didn’t plan on getting deeply involved in the first place. To make sure that doesn’t happen, stick with your criteria and hold out for someone who ticks all your boxes.

A quick birds-eye view of your matches

As a Mint persona, you are likely to be on the outlook for a charming and patient guy with good manners.

The style of a Blue, Green or White persona is best suited to satisfy this need. A guy with a Blue persona is likely to be the most kind and considerate. A guy with a Green persona is going to be the most organised as well as financially and emotionally stable, which are qualities you are likely to appreciate. And lastly, the imaginative playfulness of the considerate and kind White persona will also be strongly appealing to you.

The guys who need not apply are the ones with the larger than life egos and accompanying personalities. So it’s probably a no-thank-you for Mr Red, Mr Yellow and Mr Purple. A Red is likely to be simply too confrontational for you as a peace-loving Mint. A guy with a Yellow persona will be perceived to lack depth and emotional substance as they often speak before consulting with their faculties. You’ll often find yourself confused and puzzled by an inconsistent Purple who will seem like a chameleon to you when it comes to his mood changes. As a budget-conscious Mint, you will also find some of the Yellow and White’s impulse purchases rather disturbing. While a Purple would be relatively similar to you in your spending habits, you will struggle to build a meaningful connection with him as you’ll often end up feeling ‘locked out’ for no obvious reason.

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